Hey there yourself. I suggest you read Trailblazer Travelbooks for Kauai, Maui, Oahu, and the Big Island.
Um, Siri, can you be more specific?
Sure. The books by Janine and Jerry Sprout are very specific and easy to read. You will find Aloha.
Okay, but what is Aloha?
Today, Aloha is said to mean 'hello,' 'good-bye,' and 'I love you.' The word derives from ancient times when Hawaiians would touch foreheads, breath in on 'alo,' and exhale on 'ha,' exchanging air thus symbolizing the commonality of mankind ...
To some, Aloha is a state of mind.
What is it like, this state of mind?
That is not a question I can answer, so don't rub it in.